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Dating Coach Gets Dumped On Valentine’s Day

Jay Cataldo — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 05:59:29 +0000

If you were following my rants and raves last year around this time, then you’re well aware of how much I dislike the pseudo-holiday known as Valentine’s Day. Sure, I could go on and on and rehash my gripes but my perspective hasn’t changed one bit since last year. What HAS changed, however, is the fact that I’m currently in a relationship and my girlfriend doesn’t exactly share my sentiments. So it’s safe to assume that today… the sh*t is about to hit the fan.

You see, I’ve tried for a year to convince my girl of the brilliance of my anti-valentine’s day stance… with varying degrees of success. Ok fine, I failed miserably. It seems there’s no way to overcome the many years of cultural influence (ahem… brainwashing) that has polluted my poor girl’s mind.

But still… I refuse to give in. There will be no flowers, cards, teddy bears, chocolates or gifts of any kind today. At least not from me. Let the orbiters and fan-boys fill her v-day stocking to the brim with trinkets and toys but I refuse to budge out of principle. Because someone, somewhere said that all we have are our principles. (I’m guessing he must also have been a stubborn bastard. I salute you, principle guy.)

So the question is… will mi amour accept her teddy-less fate and acquiesceto my v-day abstinence or will she unhesitatingly toss me on my ass like yesterday’s garbage? Stay tuned for the potentially shocking conclusion. In the meantime, feel free to weigh in below. Ladies, where exactly do I rank on the jerk-o-meter?

To get you in the right spirit, here is a nice little collection of Valentine’s Day Fails: http://chzb.gr/dNvM04

P.S. And if you happened to be living on the moon last year and you still don’t understand why Cupid should be disemboweled, check out these earlier posts from my deranged mind and get with the program:

http://jaycataldo.com/blog/valentines-day/who-else-hates-valentines-day/

http://jaycataldo.com/blog/valentines-day/valentines-day-sucks/

http://jaycataldo.com/blog/valentines-day/valentines-day-is-officially-destroyed/

-Me

Valentines Day Is Officially Destroyed

Jay Cataldo — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:13:55 +0000

It seems my Anti-Valentine’s Day campaign was rather successful. If you want to take a look at the damage, check out the links below…

Radio Interviews:

The Art of Love with Lucia (click on “Feb 14th)”: http://www.latalkradio.com/Lucia.php

The Anti-Valentines Day Battle of the Gurus! w/DeAnna Lorraine: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deanna-the-date-dr/2010/02/14/the-anti-valentines-day-battle-of-the-gurus

Valentine’s Day: Hallmark Horror or Hallowed Holiday – Dating Experts Julie Spira and Jay Cataldo on “Gab With The Gurus”: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/gabwiththegurus/2010/02/11/valentines-day-hallmark-horror-or-hallowed-holiday

Articles:

http://singularcity.com/dating-and-relationships/547-relationship-expert-vows-to-destroy-valentines-day

http://www.metronews.ca/vancouver/comment/article/446206–ease-off-on-the-valentine-s-day-hate

http://www.fashionweekdaily.com/chic-report/article/correspondence-we-actually-received-love-ninja-edition

http://www.startribune.com/lifestyle/84033222.html?page=1&c=y

http://www.thebachelorguy.com/5-reasons-valentines-day-must-be-eliminated.html

http://www.momspace.com/news/36312/A-Guys-Take-on-Valentines-Day.htm

http://www.kissandtellkorea.com/02/v-daycountdown/

http://sex.missmanifesto.com/?p=181

http://www.bvonlove.com/2010/02/12/the-anti-valentines-day-manifesto/

http://mavtv.com/wordpress/?p=6636

http://www.blogher.com/top-5-romance-killing-valentines-day-gift-ideas

http://www.newser.com/story/80724/why-valentines-day-needs-to-die.html

http://articles.dailypress.com/2010-02-14/features/dp-gl_keeporcancel_0214feb14_1_love-valentine-s-days-happy-anniversary

-Jay

Valentines Day Sucks! – Lets Get Rid Of It Once And For All

Jay Cataldo — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 23:29:12 +0000

I have some good news for all you Valentines Day haters out there. As I’m sure you know from reading my last V-Day post, I’m on a mission this year to destroy this pseudo-holiday once and for all.

So here’s the good news… The ever-so-lovely Miss DeAnna Lorraine (www.deannalorraine.com) recently had me on her show to explain just why I hate Valentine’s Day so much. Since every guy on the planet needs to hear this, I’ve decided to make the recording available (at no charge) for a limited time, so fill out the form below and download the podcast while it’s still available.

In this 40 minute podcast you will learn:

The #1 reason why Valentine’s Day needs to die
Valentine’s Day’s major flaws
What Tony Soprano can teach you about the dangers of Valentine’s Day
Why Valentine’s Day is a major competition between a woman and her girlfriends and how to use this to your advantage
How to use my secret “Love Tactic #9″ to convince your girlfriend to forget about Valentine’s Day for good
How to wipe February 14th off your calendar forever while making your girlfriend think you’re the most romantic guy on earth

P.S. If you’re already on my mailing list, don’t sign up twice. Just send an email to info@jaycataldo.com with “Vday Podcast” in the subject line and I’ll email you the download link.

P.P.S. You can check out the teaser on youtube: http://bit.ly/8paAQf

Who Else Hates Valentine’s Day?

Jay Cataldo — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 20:01:57 +0000

Valentine’s Day is almost here and in case you’re not aware, I have some serious beef with this pseudo-holiday. In fact, I’m on a mission this year to destroy it once and for all.

Pretty strong words from a relationship coach, I know. But I have a very good reason (50, actually) for wanting to wipe V-Day off every calendar on the planet.

But before I go off on a 45 minute rant, I want to hear your thoughts. How do you feel about V-Day? Do you love it? Hate it? Can you take it or leave it?

Please post your comments below and let me know how you feel. Bonus points for any V-Day disaster stories that will help fuel my rage.

P.S. Check out my follow-up podcast: Valentine’s Day Sucks!

-Jay