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    Jay Cataldo Life Coaching

    304 Park Avenue South

    New York, NY 10010

    (800) 617-6186


    The Jay Cataldo Life Coaching Blog

    "Transform Your Life At The Push Of A Button"

    Life Coaching? Say What?

    The first question I’m asked when people find out what I do sounds something like this: “?  Hmm… what’s that all about?”  And my response is always the same: “Honestly… I really couldn’t tell you.” 


    I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not your typical .  I’m nowhere near fifty years old, I’m as politically incorrect as you can get, and I wasn’t invited to be a talking head on The Secret.


    So why should you listen to even a single word I have to say, let alone allow me to influence your major life decisions?  Simple.  Because you want stuff… and I can help you get it.  My driving purpose on this planet is to help people get what they want out of life and I’m darn good at it.  Show me the obstacle that’s holding you back from success and I’ll show you how to overcome it.  That’s what I do.


    My style of life coaching comes down to one thing: YOU.  I will tirelessly coach you to live a more exciting and empowered life by YOUR definition.  I don’t hold anyone to an arbitrary standard of success… whatever it is you want to achieve, rest assured that I will do my best to help you accomplish it.  Bring me your problems and we’ll solve them together.


    You want your band to make it to the big leagues?  I can put you on the path to getting there.  Want to be more successful with women?  I’ll help you transform into a ladies man by showing you how to master every step of a romantic interaction.  Need help managing your business or personal relationships?  I wrote the book on relationships (literally) and I can help ensure that people treat you exactly the way you want.


    Need to do better in school?  Struggling with social anxiety or depression?  Can’t shake your low self-esteem?  I’ve got you covered.  I struggled with many of these problems myself and I can show you how to blast though them as quickly and painlessly as possible by handing you the mental tools and shortcuts that took me over a decade to learn.


    I’m all about speed and efficiency and I work hard to make sure changes happen as quickly as possible.  If you firmly believe that it takes years of hard work to see results, then go find a therapist and make yourself comfy on her brown leather couch.  Jay Cataldo Life Coaching is not for you.


    Another thing you should know is that I urge my clients to work on all aspects of their lives, from their eating habits to their relationships, to ensure that they’re living a fully empowered lifestyle.  But if you’re not ready for a total life transformation, that’s ok by me.  Some people aren’t ready to put in the effort it takes to become a superstar and I’m cool with that. 


    Would you rather sit home and bake cupcakes all day while playing ten straight hours of Xbox?  No problem.  I’ll find you a bangin recipe that’ll make Betty Crocker furious and get you some killer cheat codes so you can beat the snot out of your twelve-year-old neighbor when he drops by to play Madden.  You tell me what exactly what it is you want and I’ll help you get it. 


    Another thing you’ll come to understand is that I have absolutely no tolerance for bullshit.  If you’re like me, you’ve probably realized that since the day you were born, you’ve been force-fed a steady diet of complete and utter bullshit from every angle imaginable.  I’m sick and tired of it and I hope you are too. 


    Since I’m repulsed by deception, I promise to always give you the behind-the-curtains peek at how things REALLY work in our society, from the poison you’re being sold as food to exactly what you need to do to keep your partner truly happy and satisfied (things that Dr. Phil will NEVER tell you).  I don’t pull punches or hold anything back because I believe that you need to hear the absolute truth in order to become successful.


    Because of this, you can be sure that I’ll never b.s. you about the steps you need to take to transform your life.  But let me forewarn you… my honesty comes with a downside.  I can tell you right now that you’re not always gonna like what I have to say.  So if you’re easily offended, please cover your ears and walk away now.


    Again, the straight dirt isn’t always pretty.  If you’re happy believing that all you need to reach your full potential is a course on positive thinking, a “What The Bleep!?” DVD and a few Buddhist mantras, then don’t let me interrupt you while you’re singing kumbaya around the campfire.  Jay Cataldo Life Coaching is not for you.


    But if you’re ready to blast through the barricades, silence the critics and blow away the competition, then stick around for a bit.  We’re gonna take your life to a whole new level.


    So now that you know a little about me, let me tell you a bit about what you can expect for the future.  I created this blog so I can share with you my best tips and strategies for maximizing your enjoyment of life, absolutely free of charge.  And since there’s a whole boatload of things I consider enjoyable, expect me to be covering a WIDE variety of topics, some of which may bore you.  But I promise that most of them will blow you away… pinky swear.


    To whet your appetite a bit, here are some things I’ll be discussing in the future:


    • The psychological tools I use to obliterate anxiety and depression


    • Strategies for getting exactly what you want out of life


    • How to use food to produce “love chemicals” in the person you desire


    • A complete plan for getting in the best shape of your life


    • How to change your personality by changing your handwriting


    • The simple secret to creating lucid dreams on command


    • How to quickly and easily win back your ex after a breakup


    • The best sex advice you will ever hear (for both men and women)


    • The hidden cancer cure that is sitting in your refrigerator


    • How to get backstage passes to any concert you want


    …and much, much more.


    That’s all for now.  If you have any questions, shoot em over and I’ll do my best to answer them.  And if I can’t, I’ll find you someone who can.  Till next time…


    P.S. If you liked this article, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button” as a gift.


    P.P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 “Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!


    Make it happen,



    35 Responses to “Life Coaching? Say What?”

    1. richdmoneymaker Says:

      Good stuff/topics Jay! Looks like you have everything covered. Maybe you can relate to the John Lennon song lyrics, “…there’s no problems only solutions.” I don’t have problems but your topics still interest me.

    2. Jay Cataldo Says:

      lol I’m glad you don’t have any problems, but too many people like you and I’m out of business. 😉

      Thanks for the comment.

    3. casandra Says:

      Hi, just wanted to thank you for inviting me here. You look to be a excellent writer and I know i can always use helpful information to change my life. Thaks again,

    4. Siavash Says:

      Thank you so much Jay I do my best to go your way and be who I wanna be

    5. Yaz Says:

      Hello, I really lilke to follow your info, how can I join your mailing list? cause I have a lotttttt of questions and I like the way you write, the problem its that I dont live in the states anymore, what should I do? thanks and take care!! Happy Sunday :)Yaz Hdz

    6. Jay Cataldo Says:

      Casandra – Thanks for the kind words. 🙂

      Yaz – To join my mailing list, just enter your name and email into the form on the right side of this page.

      And if you have questions, you can ask me anything you’d like on the Definitive Diva forums.

      Thanks for stopping by. 🙂

    7. Philip J. Germani Says:

      Hi Jay,

      What an enjoyable read. Now i am curious. When I first logged in, I was hoping and praying that this was not just another MLM. I hate that crap. You sound sincere and honest and I really like that. I’m a realistic, no bullshit person too.

      Take care,


    8. Jay Cataldo Says:

      Phillip – Thanks so much. I am actually the FURTHEST thing from an MLM scam. 🙂 I hope you enjoy the rest of my articles.

    9. Cynthia Says:

      Jay, thanks for tweeting me this site. I look forward to your informative postings!

    10. leonard Says:

      I like your site,am glad to follow and hang around for a while to see this through.You got great stuff here.

    11. Bernie Says:

      Okay great, how do I get started?

    12. Jay Cataldo Says:

      Cynthia and Leonard: Thanks so much, guys. I will do my best to keep pumping out interesting and helpful content for everyone.

      Bernie: All you have to do is click on the “Free Consultation” link on the home page and we can chat about whatever’s on your mind.

    13. Linda Says:

      I’ve had a look at your website and it is not full of rubbish as so many such sites are. I think I’m going to like you.

    14. Alexandra Says:

      Hey Jay thanks for tweeting me this site:)
      Really interesting..look forward to be following you/your work in the future.

    15. Jared Says:

      Well you’ve caught my attention! I like it when people cut the crap, and tell it like it is. Good stuff.

    16. fernando Says:

      hey jay… love the no B.S. approach… i apply the same
      with my clients…

    17. Anthony Godinho Says:

      You’ve written this well – I like and agree with your approach…all the best!

    18. Belyu Says:

      I really enjoyed reading your articles on different facets we struggle with or have difficulties with in our life ..on your blog. Very good work.

    19. Alan Says:

      I like your style man, call a spade a spade.
      That’s the way I tend to do it as well.
      The English system tells us to be all, listen – don’t teach whereas I see it that if people knew where they were going, they wouldn’t need us would they?
      Keep it real man..

    20. Yvonne Finn Says:

      Hello Jay,
      What a breath of fresh air!
      Well, you’re so right, I am fed up with bs in all in many forms!
      I am glad that there are some of us who are trying to stem the growing tide of lies and other bs.
      I will follow your Tweets.
      Keep them coming!
      Yvonne Finn

    21. gongtong jaithamdee Says:

      Hello jay, i will follow your twetts and i like picture of dogs.

    22. @OlhoNaTV Says:


    23. flowing Says:

      best article I read about this yet!

    24. roberto Sy Says:

      Nice blog.

    25. Dimka Says:

      Thank you so much Jay

    26. Joe Says:

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    27. Sal Says:

      Thank you so much, there aren’t enough posts on this… or at least i cant find them. I am turning into such a blog nut, I just cant get enough and this is such an important topic… i’ll be sure to write something about your site

    28. Sully Says:

      Thank you so much, there aren’t enough posts on this… keep up the good work

    29. alicia Says:

      Thank you so much, Great information… You keep writing and I’ll keep reading. 🙂

    30. mamahnita Says:

      Cool i like It.

    31. Val Says:

      Thank Jay,
      nice read, hope you can succeed, life is tuff and everyone needs someone to vent at.

    32. Emil Pop Says:

      Just dropping to say HI

    33. Kimberly (rosebud1668) Says:

      i have serious financial issues. Husband, heart condition, me, everyone thinks im crazy, my 21 year old son is Autistic, and my little girl is 4.

      i would like to help myself, just got more going out, than money coming in

    34. Evina Says:

      Best article

    35. Dorine Kuznicki Says:

      This is a terrific site, would you be interested in doing an interview about just how you developed it? If so e-mail me!

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