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Oh Crap… It Doesn’t Work…Author: Jay Cataldo10 19th, 2011
One of the issues that’s been coming up a lot lately for my clients is bedroom-specific performance anxiety. For men, not being able to perform on command scares the crap out of them which is understandable considering their virility is as closely tied to their sense of self-worth as their incomes (and possibly more so).  read comments (0)
Q&A: Do You Really Have Amazing Relationships?Author: Jay Cataldo04 20th, 2010
Q: hey Jay, I have seen some of your stuff, and it seems pretty interesting. I think that your ideas about relationships are good, but im hesitant to look for more advice from you because im not sure about you or why I should listen to anything you say.
I guess you have been a life coach for a while, but to me that doesn’t mean that you have actually helped anybody just that you’re good at marketing yourself. What i’m wondering is do you have a girlfriend, are you in a happy relationship. You say you used to be dorky, and now you are different but is that just marketing or are you really having amazing relationships?
Q&A: I Was Betrayed!Author: Jay Cataldo04 17th, 2010
Have you ever been betrayed by an ex? Hurts pretty bad doesn’t it?
Q&A: Help! I’m Emotionally Vulnerable…Author: Jay Cataldo04 15th, 2010
Q: “Hi Jay. I could really use some tools to help spotting the kinds of women who are genuinely interested in love, intimacy and friendship, as opposed to the ones who have a power-oriented or sadistic/masochistic attitude towards sex and intimacy. I’ve been involved with a few of the latter (one of whom turned out to have been an incest victim) and I do not want to go through that experience ever again. Also it seems a lot of women learn to see emotional vulnerability in men as a sign of weakness to be exploited and ridiculed.
SingleEdition.com InterviewAuthor: Jay Cataldo03 28th, 2010
I was recently interviewed by the gorgeous Sherri Langburt of SingleEdition.com. Check out what I had to say about getting over approach anxiety, hooking up your bachelor pad and pulling yourself out of the black hole of the ”friend zone.”
Valentines Day Sucks! – Lets Get Rid Of It Once And For AllAuthor: Jay Cataldo01 20th, 2010
I have some good news for all you Valentines Day haters out there. As I’m sure you know from reading my last V-Day post, I’m on a mission this year to destroy this pseudo-holiday once and for all.
So here’s the good news… The ever-so-lovely Miss DeAnna Lorraine (www.deannalorraine.com) recently had me on her show to explain just why I hate Valentine’s Day so much. Since every guy on the planet needs to hear this, I’ve decided to make the recording available (at no charge) for a limited time, so fill out the form below and download the podcast while it’s still available.
NYC Dating Magic Part 2Author: Jay Cataldo01 12th, 2010
(If you haven’t read Part 1 yet, please read it first before continuing: NYC Dating Magic Part 1)
Here’s the breakdown of our 3 day adventure (a huge thanks to my good friend Plato for helping me concoct the itinerary):
NYC Dating Magic Part 1Author: Jay Cataldo01 11th, 2010
Today, I’d like to answer a question I’m frequently asked by my male clients.
“Ok, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?”
Aka: “It took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you suggest?”
Weighing In On The Tiger Woods ScandalAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 13th, 2009
As the Tiger Woods scandal continues to gather attention, a few people have asked me how I would go about coaching him if he were my client. As a relationship coach who specializes in breakups, here’s what I’d tell this cheating Tiger…
If You Want To Be Good At Life, Make Peace With DeathAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 10th, 2009
I had an interesting coaching session the other day that I’d like to tell you about. My client (we’ll call him Steve) is a marine who returned home from Iraq earlier in the year. While overseas, one of his best friends became paralyzed from a stray bullet. Unable to deal with the emotional pain, he ended up committing suicide.
Falling In Love Can Be Hazardous To Your HealthAuthor: Jay Cataldo11 6th, 2009
photo courtesy of Creative Commons
About a week back, I put up a tweet on twitter that got everyone all riled up. I’ll admit that it was a bit controversial, even for me. It read:
“The more frustrated men I work with, the more I believe that falling in love is the biggest mistake a man can make in a relationship.”
And of course, everybody started freaking out. While I did get a few “amen brotha”s, most of the responses (from both men and women) accused me of being “crazy”, “cynical” and an all-around poor excuse for a relationship coach. lol Pretty funny actually, but I understand why everyone was so upset. I quickly followed up with this: Read the rest of this entry »
The Best Dating Strategy For EveryoneAuthor: Jay Cataldo06 29th, 2009
This next piece is a guest post from blogger Andrew Kennedy (http://ankank.blogspot.com), the author of “Essential Personalities”.
Hi all,
This blog was initiated by dating coach Jay Cataldo (@JayCataldo on twitter). Jay has done a great thing in inviting others to contribute to his dating blog. He has been warm and generous with me especially when we probably don’t agree that much about some matters, but to those readers new to my blog let me introduce myself. Read the rest of this entry »
A Must Watch TrailerAuthor: Jay Cataldo06 1st, 2009
People constantly ask me how I’m able to get the results that I do for my clients. If you’re curious, you can watch the trailer below to learn more about the “secret weapon” I use to transform people’s lives.
Btw… Success guru Jack Canfield highly endorses this technique (he’s in the movie). Nuff said.
P.S. If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles are published and will also receive my highly acclaimed free report “Push The Button – Seven Proven Success Secrets For A Total Life Transformation” as a gift.
P.P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 ”Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!
More Bad Facebook MannersAuthor: Jay Cataldo05 19th, 2009
I recently got to watch a breakup between a husband and wife unfold on Facebook which played out like a mini soap opera. What made it especially interesting was the fact that the guy is a pickup coach, very similar to that guy Mystery from the VH1 show “The Pickup Artist.”
It’s Not Me… They’re All Crazy!!!Author: Jay Cataldo05 8th, 2009
Let’s face it. Women are completely insane… at least from a man’s point of view. What guy wouldn’t agree that it’s easier to solve a Rubik’s cube in the midst of an acid trip than to decipher even a single sentence’s worth of undertones coming from the mouth of a female?
Facebook MannersAuthor: Jay Cataldo04 27th, 2009
Everyone could use a lesson in Facebook etiquette.
(If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles and videos are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button” as a gift.)
P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 ”Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!
The Vaynerchuk ExperienceAuthor: Jay Cataldo04 10th, 2009
Whether you happen to be dating someone new or you’ve been with the same girl for years, it’s a good idea to break away from doing the same old boring “date stuff” and occasionally introduce something new and exciting into the mix. To help get your creative juices flowing, this dating coach is gonna share with you one of his favorite date ideas that contains (what he considers to be) the three most important components of a quality date:
Watch “The Dog Whisperer” and Become Irresistible to WomenAuthor: Jay Cataldo03 8th, 2009
One of my friends recently turned me on to the show “The Dog Whisperer” with Cesar Millan and I was instantly hooked. I’ve learned a ton from watching this guy in action and his brand of “dog psychology” has helped me rehabilitate my younger brother’s rambunctious beagle. But as fun as it is to modify a stubborn dog’s behavior, it was the realization that these same techniques can be applied to romantic relationships that led to all the wear and tear on my TiVo.
Life Coaching? Say What?Author: Jay Cataldo02 19th, 2009
The first question I’m asked when people find out what I do sounds something like this: “Life coaching? Hmm… what’s that all about?” And my response is always the same: “Honestly… I really couldn’t tell you.”
I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not your typical life coach. I’m nowhere near fifty years old, I’m as politically incorrect as you can get, and I wasn’t invited to be a talking head on The Secret.
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