Today, I\u2019d like to answer a question I\u2019m frequently asked by my male clients.<\/p>\n
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\u201cOk, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?\u201d<\/p>\n
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Aka: \u201cIt took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you suggest?\u201d<\/p>\n
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Now first off, let me say that, even though I’m a dating coach<\/a>, I\u2019m not a huge fan of dating. In fact, I think a guy should do whatever he can to take himself out of the \u201cdating\u201d frame and instead, make it very clear that the two of them are just \u201changing out.\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I\u2019ll usually say something like, \u201cJust so you know, we\u2019re not going on a date tonight. Dating equates to a boring dinner, a sappy movie and a cheesy goodnight kiss. We\u2019re not going to do any of that. We\u2019re just gonna hang out and have some fun.\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Having said that, there are a few things to keep in mind when you\u2019re spending time with a girl you\u2019re interested in. The first thing is, you want to pack in as many places\/sensory experiences as you can in the shortest amount of time possible.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n For example, instead of sitting at the same bar all night, have a couple drinks, leave to grab a quick bite to eat, then stop at an ice cream place on the way home. The more places you take her to, the longer she will feel she has known you (since she\u2019ll have more memories of you together).<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Last month, I had a super cool girl fly out to visit for a few days. Since we were already pretty close, and she had never really experienced New York City before (not properly, at least), I decided to go all out and show her an amazing time.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Now, I don\u2019t recommend going this over the top with a girl you just started dating, because it may come off like you\u2019re trying too hard. Also, it sets a ridiculous precedent that will be impossible for you to live up to on a consistent basis.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Having said that, stay tuned for part 2 of this post where I\u2019ll be breaking down our entire three day adventure from start to finish. If you\u2019re ever in NYC and decide to follow this protocol (or just parts of it), I promise that your girl will love you forever\u2026 or at least until the weekend is over. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Check out part 2 here: NYC Dating Magic Part 2<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Make it happen,<\/p>\n <\/p>\n -Jay Cataldo<\/p>\n <\/p>\n P.S. Don\u2019t forget to go ahead and request your FREE 30min \u201cRapid Transformation\u201d coaching session by going here: SIGN ME UP!<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Today, I\u2019d like to answer a question I\u2019m frequently asked by my male clients. \u201cOk, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?\u201d Aka: \u201cIt took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you… <\/p>\n