As I’m sure you already know, every superstar athlete, A-list actor and celebrity musician has a team of coaches invested in their results. Coaching is such an integral part of the success process and you’ll be hard-pressed to find a high-achiever who doesn’t attribute at least some of their success to coaching from a trusted mentor or advisor.
I personally have worked with many coaches throughout my lifetime and I’ll continue to be coached until the day I die. But enough about me. Let’s talk instead about what coaching is going to do for YOU.
Here are 8 reasons why almost everyone can MASSIVELY benefit from coaching:
- To Be Heard
- New Insights
- “Secret” Techniques
- Speed of Transformation
- Emotional Control
To Be Heard: Newsweek magazine described life coaches as “part therapists, part consultants”. Imagine having someone with whom you can discuss the innermost workings of your life; someone who REALLY listens and is excited to hear what’s on your mind. Many people feel they have no need for traditional therapy because they’re not “broken”. However, we all need guidance, support and someone in our corner who truly believes in us.
New Insights: No matter how intelligent, independent and self-sufficient you may be, sometimes life drops you into a quagmire. Your situation can seem absolutely hopeless until a friendly bystander kindly tosses you a rope and pulls you to safety.
When you work with a coach, you’ll have a set of eagle eyes looking at your challenges from all angles. From their unique perspective, your coach can see things that you missed yourself and will point out possibilities and solutions that were previously invisible. Human beings are designed to rely on each other for help and support and there’s no shame in this. Instead of shunning it, embrace this fact so you can utilize the power that comes from having an additional mind working diligently on solving your problems.
“Secret” Techniques and Strategies: Most people are unaware that systems exist for eliminating deep-seated fears and reprogramming unhelpful beliefs. In addition, when most guys learn of my system for winning back an ex-girlfriend, the first thing they say is “Man… I wish I’d known about you years ago. I made so many mistakes with my ex!”
Sadly, the most important tools and strategies for helping us live an amazing (and minimally stressful) life were NOT taught to us in grade school, high school or even college. As a result, we are at a massive disadvantage compared to others who were lucky enough to stumble upon this “secret” knowledge.
Think about what it would be like if you could remove limiting beliefs you’ve had your entire life (i.e. “I’m not smart enough,” “I’m terrible in social situations,” etc.) and replace them with far more empowering ones (“I can handle ANYTHING life throws at me!”). If you really believed that you could easily double your current salary or attract the partner of your dreams, wouldn’t you be acting a bit differently then you are now? I’d bet you would be.
A good coach will teach you a variety of “life-hacks” that will give you an almost unfair advantage over your perceived competition. Ideally, your coach should have an extensive background in hypnotherapy and mind programming as these tools are the FASTEST way to institute positive, permanent and powerful changes in an individual. Nothing else comes close.
Speed of Transformation: Let’s be frank here… I’d wager that you’re certainly smart enough to figure things out on your own. If you really apply yourself, there’s a good chance you’ll overcome all of your problems without outside assistance. However, it could very well take you ten years of daily effort! Do you really have that much time to waste? Doesn’t it make sense to find a short-cut? Working with a coach can shave YEARS off the learning curve and get you to where you want to be in a fraction of the usual time.
Motivation: Let’s face it… life has a way of making us feel discouraged more often than we might like. And when discouragement sets in, we inch closer and closer to making that dreadful decision which has stolen more dreams from mankind than any other: the decision to throw in the towel.
Working with a coach is one of the best ways to keep your enthusiasm and motivation levels sky high. As one of my clients put it: “I come in to your office feeling absolutely defeated by life but I leave feeling inspired, empowered and ready to take on the world.”
Acceptance: For many people, the pursuit of “atypical” goals and dreams (which can mean anything OTHER than becoming a doctor/lawyer/accountant like dear old mom suggests) can leave you feeling disconnected from family, friends and the rest of the world. You may feel like no one really understands you which can lead to frustration and despair.
We all benefit from surrounding ourselves with like-minded people but sometimes this is quite difficult. As a result, negative programming from our friends and families can wear us down over time and crush our desires to build a better life for ourselves.
Your coach will be a constant reminder that you’re not at all crazy and you ARE on the right track. When you finally take the plunge, you’ll become part of an elite group of individuals all around the world who are dedicated to bettering their performance and achieving extraordinary results.
Emotional Control: If I had to choose one single issue that causes more pain, misery and lack of success than anything else, it would have to be the inability to manage one’s emotions. Just think of all the many ways your fears have held you back in life. How much easier (and more fun!) would life be if you were able to successfully deal with ANY emotion that arises? How much more would you have accomplished if your feelings didn’t hold you back from doing the things you need to do? A good coach will help you develop the control you’ve been looking for.
Accountability: Simply put, when we raise our standards, we push ourselves to grow faster and further. Professional athletes are held accountable to their coaches, fans, and sponsors which puts them under an enormous amount of pressure. But on the flip side, it also pushes them to strive for absolute excellence. Unfortunately, the average human being is typically held accountable only to their boss (and maybe their spouse) and even then they’re typically expected to perform “reasonably well,” as opposed to “exceptionally well”.
Accountability not only keeps us in check but reminds us to be the best we can be at all times. This mindset shift encourages us to consistently perform at a much higher level than we would otherwise. Ask yourself this: Are you truly holding yourself accountable to a higher standard of excellence? If not, how might your life change over the next year if you adopted this mindset?
So there you have it – 8 reasons why you absolutely MUST get yourself coached so you can start designing the life you were meant to live. I truly believe that ANYONE, regardless of age, race, socio-economic status or inborn talent (or lack thereof) can learn to be successful (and even more importantly, HAPPY!) with the right guidance and support. My clients have proven this time and time again.
So go ahead now and think about the BIGGEST PROBLEM you’re facing. You know, the one that keeps you up at night and makes you SHAKE WITH FEAR just thinking about it. My question is, what’s going to happen if you don’t overcome it? What is your life going to look like if you keep going down this path? How much worse will you be affected a year from now? Five years from now? Ten years from now? How much of your life will be wasted as a result?
Ok stop! Now rewind that tape because thankfully none of that has happened yet (whew). So this time, I want you to imagine that you were able to get the help you needed to overcome this challenge. You beat it! It’s all over now. And because you were successful in this area, your confidence began to grow exponentially until success started mapping over to other areas of your life… so much so that you began confidently knocking down ALL of the challenges in your path.
What will your life look like a year from now if you keep traveling on THIS path? How about five years from now? Ten years? Now turn around and look back on today and notice how AMAZING your life has been. Notice all the ADVENTURES you’ve had. Notice all of the LOVE you’re surrounded with. Your sense of pride begins to swell as you notice just how GOOD this all feels. Congratulations! You’ve made it.
The purpose of that little exercise was to simply make you aware of how you might be missing out on a FAR more amazing lifestyle. And if you’re ready to take the plunge (or if you’re still on the fence) go ahead and click the link below to request a coaching consultation. We’ll then work to uncover exactly what’s been holding you back from getting what you want and, even more importantly, we’ll design an action plan to help you blast through your obstacles.
Now please let me be clear, I am only promising ONE session at this time. I have a limited amount of availability as well as an extensive screening process for all interested parties so I can’t promise that I will accept you as a full-time client. But at the very least, I will help you the best I can during our initial consultation.
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