Tag: life coach

How To Quickly Move On From What’s Holding You Back

  I was recently interviewed in the March issue of Cosmopolitan about how to get over past hurts and move on with your life. The article, however, was a bit disappointing since they only used about 5 minutes worth of the 30 minute interview. I’m fully aware of their space constraints but since the published tips…


Why EVERYONE Needs a Life Coach

  As I’m sure you already know, every superstar athlete, A-list actor and celebrity musician has a team of coaches invested in their results. Coaching is such an integral part of the success process and you’ll be hard-pressed to find a high-achiever who doesn’t attribute at least some of their success to coaching from a…


The Limitless Home Study Course Is Finally Here!

I’m very proud to say that my new home study course is finally available. “Limitless” is a jam-packed compilation of the very best techniques, strategies and killer advice I’ve learned over the last 15 years I’ve spent in the self-help field. I’ve named it after the movie because it’s the next best thing to popping NZT without the horrific side-effects….


Happy Thanksgiving!

To me, the spirit of Thanksgiving goes way beyond “awesome! a day off from work!”   It’s a time of reflection… of looking at your life in a different way.   For at least one day out of 365, tell that little voice in your head that’s always whining about what you don’t have and…


Faking Celebrity Status = More Dates?

I came across this very interesting video prank on youtube that showcases an interesting quirk of human nature. It’s no surprise that women are highly likely to be attracted to “high status men” (professional athletes, movie stars, musicians, etc) and would typically jump at the chance to be courted by one of these guys. But…


A Daily Dose Of Inspiration

A few nights ago, I had the pleasure of spending time with a former client who was back in town for a couple of days. Leslie’s story is pretty remarkable and I’d like to share it in the hopes it will motivate and inspire you.   Back when she came to me, Leslie was struggling…


Q&A: I Was Betrayed!

 Have you ever been betrayed by an ex? Hurts pretty bad doesn’t it?  The good news is, there’s a way to eliminate the pain of a betrayal and it doesn’t involve meds or years of therapy. If you’d like to learn what it is, then keep reading…  …


NYC Dating Magic Part 2

(If you haven’t read Part 1 yet, please read it first before continuing: NYC Dating Magic Part 1)   Here’s the breakdown of our 3 day adventure (a huge thanks to my good friend Plato for helping me concoct the itinerary):  …


NYC Dating Magic Part 1

Today, I’d like to answer a question I’m frequently asked by my male clients.   “Ok, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?”   Aka: “It took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you…


Best Christmas Present Ever

If you follow me on twitter, you know that I’ve been raving about my incredibly talented friend Jessica and her beautiful voice. She gave me the best Christmas present I’ve ever received and I wanted to share it with you guys….


If You Want To Be Good At Life, Make Peace With Death

I had an interesting coaching session the other day that I’d like to tell you about. My client (we’ll call him Steve) is a marine who returned home from Iraq earlier in the year. While overseas, one of his best friends became paralyzed from a stray bullet. Unable to deal with the emotional pain, he…


Falling In Love Can Be Hazardous To Your Health

About a week back, I put up a tweet on twitter that got everyone all riled up. I’ll admit that it was a bit controversial, even for me. It read:   “The more frustrated men I work with, the more I believe that falling in love is the biggest mistake a man can make in…


Warning – Do You Take Calcium Supplements?

If you take calcium supplements, then you need to watch this David Wolfe video. David explains why calcium supplements might actually be dangerous.   P.S. If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right.  You’ll be notified by email when new…


The Chris Brown Apology

So Chris Brown finally issued a public apology last week for the infamous “Rihanna incident.” While it was long overdue, most people didn’t seem too happy with it, myself being one of them. Personally, I think he could have done a much better job and at the end of this article, I’m going to be…


A Must Watch Trailer

People constantly ask me how I’m able to get the results that I do for my clients.  If you’re curious, you can watch the trailer below to learn more about the “secret weapon” I use to transform people’s lives.   Btw… Success guru Jack Canfield highly endorses this technique (he’s in the movie). Nuff said.   P.S….


More Bad Facebook Manners

I recently got to watch a breakup between a husband and wife unfold on Facebook which played out like a mini soap opera.  What made it especially interesting was the fact that the guy is a pickup coach, very similar to that guy Mystery from the VH1 show “The Pickup Artist.”…


It’s Not Me… They’re All Crazy!!!

Let’s face it. Women are completely insane… at least from a man’s point of view. What guy wouldn’t agree that it’s easier to solve a Rubik’s cube in the midst of an acid trip than to decipher even a single sentence’s worth of undertones coming from the mouth of a female?…


Facebook Manners

Everyone could use a lesson in Facebook etiquette.   (If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right.  You’ll be notified by email when new articles and videos are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button” as a gift.)  …


The Vaynerchuk Experience

  Whether you happen to be dating someone new or you’ve been with the same girl for years, it’s a good idea to break away from doing the same old boring “date stuff” and occasionally introduce something new and exciting into the mix.  To help get your creative juices flowing, this dating coach is gonna share with you one of his favorite date ideas that contains…


Dan Gilbert on Happiness

In this video, Harvard Psychologist Dan Gilbert challenges the idea that we’ll be miserable if we don’t get what we want.  He proposes that our “psychological immune system” lets us feel truly happy even when things fail to work out the way we hoped they would.  Interesting stuff.   P.S. If you like this video,…


Watch “The Dog Whisperer” and Become Irresistible to Women

One of my friends recently turned me on to the show “The Dog Whisperer” with Cesar Millan and I was instantly hooked.  I’ve learned a ton from watching this guy in action and his brand of “dog psychology” has helped me rehabilitate my younger brother’s rambunctious beagle.  But as fun as it is to modify a…


A New Definition Of Genius

This is a must watch video for all you creative types out there.  In this short talk, Elizabeth Gilbert (author of “Eat, Pray, Love”) offers up a new definition of “genius.”   I wasn’t a huge fan of the book that put her on the map (but I can see why women everywhere rave about…