Tag: Relationship Advice

Oh Crap… It Doesn’t Work…

One of the issues that’s been coming up a lot lately for my clients is bedroom-specific performance anxiety. For men, not being able to perform on command scares the crap out of them which is understandable considering their virility is as closely tied to their sense of self-worth as their incomes (and possibly more so)….


Q&A: Do You Really Have Amazing Relationships?

Q: hey Jay, I have seen some of your stuff, and it seems pretty interesting. I think that your ideas about relationships are good, but im hesitant to look for more advice from you because im not sure about you or why I should listen to anything you say.   I guess you have been…


Q&A: I Was Betrayed!

 Have you ever been betrayed by an ex? Hurts pretty bad doesn’t it?  The good news is, there’s a way to eliminate the pain of a betrayal and it doesn’t involve meds or years of therapy. If you’d like to learn what it is, then keep reading…  …


Q&A: Help! I’m Emotionally Vulnerable…

Q: “Hi Jay. I could really use some tools to help spotting the kinds of women who are genuinely interested in love, intimacy and friendship, as opposed to the ones who have a power-oriented or sadistic/masochistic attitude towards sex and intimacy. I’ve been involved with a few of the latter (one of whom turned out…


NYC Dating Magic Part 2

(If you haven’t read Part 1 yet, please read it first before continuing: NYC Dating Magic Part 1)   Here’s the breakdown of our 3 day adventure (a huge thanks to my good friend Plato for helping me concoct the itinerary):  …


NYC Dating Magic Part 1

Today, I’d like to answer a question I’m frequently asked by my male clients.   “Ok, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?”   Aka: “It took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you…


If You Want To Be Good At Life, Make Peace With Death

I had an interesting coaching session the other day that I’d like to tell you about. My client (we’ll call him Steve) is a marine who returned home from Iraq earlier in the year. While overseas, one of his best friends became paralyzed from a stray bullet. Unable to deal with the emotional pain, he…


Falling In Love Can Be Hazardous To Your Health

About a week back, I put up a tweet on twitter that got everyone all riled up. I’ll admit that it was a bit controversial, even for me. It read:   “The more frustrated men I work with, the more I believe that falling in love is the biggest mistake a man can make in…


A Must Watch Trailer

People constantly ask me how I’m able to get the results that I do for my clients.  If you’re curious, you can watch the trailer below to learn more about the “secret weapon” I use to transform people’s lives.   Btw… Success guru Jack Canfield highly endorses this technique (he’s in the movie). Nuff said.   P.S….


More Bad Facebook Manners

I recently got to watch a breakup between a husband and wife unfold on Facebook which played out like a mini soap opera.  What made it especially interesting was the fact that the guy is a pickup coach, very similar to that guy Mystery from the VH1 show “The Pickup Artist.”…


It’s Not Me… They’re All Crazy!!!

Let’s face it. Women are completely insane… at least from a man’s point of view. What guy wouldn’t agree that it’s easier to solve a Rubik’s cube in the midst of an acid trip than to decipher even a single sentence’s worth of undertones coming from the mouth of a female?…


Facebook Manners

Everyone could use a lesson in Facebook etiquette.   (If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right.  You’ll be notified by email when new articles and videos are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button” as a gift.)  …


The Vaynerchuk Experience

  Whether you happen to be dating someone new or you’ve been with the same girl for years, it’s a good idea to break away from doing the same old boring “date stuff” and occasionally introduce something new and exciting into the mix.  To help get your creative juices flowing, this dating coach is gonna share with you one of his favorite date ideas that contains…


Watch “The Dog Whisperer” and Become Irresistible to Women

One of my friends recently turned me on to the show “The Dog Whisperer” with Cesar Millan and I was instantly hooked.  I’ve learned a ton from watching this guy in action and his brand of “dog psychology” has helped me rehabilitate my younger brother’s rambunctious beagle.  But as fun as it is to modify a…