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Faking Celebrity Status = More Dates?Author: Jay Cataldo05 6th, 2012
I came across this very interesting video prank on youtube that showcases an interesting quirk of human nature. It’s no surprise that women are highly likely to be attracted to “high status men” (professional athletes, movie stars, musicians, etc) and would typically jump at the chance to be courted by one of these guys. But is there a way for us “normal” men to flip on this pre-programmed female desire switch even though our reality tv show deal fell through the cracks? Keep reading…  read comments (0)
A Daily Dose Of InspirationAuthor: Jay Cataldo11 20th, 2011
A few nights ago, I had the pleasure of spending time with a former client who was back in town for a couple of days. Leslie’s story is pretty remarkable and I’d like to share it in the hopes it will motivate and inspire you.
Back when she came to me, Leslie was struggling through her fellowship at an NYC hospital. The daily hazing, the politics and the long, brutal hours took a serious toll on her energy and self-confidence. But to make matters worse, poor Leslie had an even bigger problem.
Oh Crap… It Doesn’t Work…Author: Jay Cataldo10 19th, 2011
One of the issues that’s been coming up a lot lately for my clients is bedroom-specific performance anxiety. For men, not being able to perform on command scares the crap out of them which is understandable considering their virility is as closely tied to their sense of self-worth as their incomes (and possibly more so).
What The Heck Is The McGurk Effect?Author: Jay Cataldo03 28th, 2011
I stumbled across an interesting video on youtube that I’d like to share with you guys. It demonstrates how our brain occasionally plays tricks on us and distorts the information that we perceive with our five senses.
In this short clip, you’ll discover that sometimes what we think we’re hearing doesn’t match up to what’s being said. Take the simple test and see for yourself…
Dating Coach Gets Dumped On Valentine’s DayAuthor: Jay Cataldo02 14th, 2011
If you were following my rants and raves last year around this time, then you’re well aware of how much I dislike the pseudo-holiday known as Valentine’s Day. Sure, I could go on and on and rehash my gripes but my perspective hasn’t changed one bit since last year. What HAS changed, however, is the fact that I’m currently in a relationship and my girlfriend doesn’t exactly share my sentiments. So it’s safe to assume that today… the sh*t is about to hit the fan.
Dating Tips With Casey From “Hello New York”Author: Jay Cataldo01 24th, 2011
Hey guys,
Here’s a short video of me having some fun on the “Hello New York Show” with their host Casey Grayson. You can check out more of their show here: www.hellonewyorkshow.com
And if you’re interested in working with a dating coach then please fill out the form on my homepage to request a free 30 minute call so we can determine if I might be a good fit for you. Enjoy the clip.
How To Plan A New Year’s WinAuthor: Jay Cataldo01 12th, 2011
A couple of weeks ago I posted my top New Year’s Resolution strategies and urged all of you to start putting them into action. Some of you went ahead and sent in your plans for 2011 and I wanted to thank you for sharing. You guys think real big… I love it.
My awesome friend Jessica did a breakdown of her New Year’s goals and gave me permission to share. Jessica is a gorgeous and super-talented musician who’s focused on releasing her first album this year. Let’s take a look at her plans for world domination…
Q&A: I Was Betrayed!Author: Jay Cataldo04 17th, 2010
Have you ever been betrayed by an ex? Hurts pretty bad doesn’t it?
SingleEdition.com InterviewAuthor: Jay Cataldo03 28th, 2010
I was recently interviewed by the gorgeous Sherri Langburt of SingleEdition.com. Check out what I had to say about getting over approach anxiety, hooking up your bachelor pad and pulling yourself out of the black hole of the ”friend zone.”
Valentines Day Sucks! – Lets Get Rid Of It Once And For AllAuthor: Jay Cataldo01 20th, 2010
I have some good news for all you Valentines Day haters out there. As I’m sure you know from reading my last V-Day post, I’m on a mission this year to destroy this pseudo-holiday once and for all.
So here’s the good news… The ever-so-lovely Miss DeAnna Lorraine (www.deannalorraine.com) recently had me on her show to explain just why I hate Valentine’s Day so much. Since every guy on the planet needs to hear this, I’ve decided to make the recording available (at no charge) for a limited time, so fill out the form below and download the podcast while it’s still available.
NYC Dating Magic Part 2Author: Jay Cataldo01 12th, 2010
(If you haven’t read Part 1 yet, please read it first before continuing: NYC Dating Magic Part 1)
Here’s the breakdown of our 3 day adventure (a huge thanks to my good friend Plato for helping me concoct the itinerary):
NYC Dating Magic Part 1Author: Jay Cataldo01 11th, 2010
Today, I’d like to answer a question I’m frequently asked by my male clients.
“Ok, Jay, She finally said yes. So what do I do now?”
Aka: “It took me three months to convince her to go out with me but I have no clue where I should take her. What do you suggest?”
Best Christmas Present EverAuthor: Jay Cataldo01 1st, 2010
If you follow me on twitter, you know that I’ve been raving about my incredibly talented friend Jessica and her beautiful voice. She gave me the best Christmas present I’ve ever received and I wanted to share it with you guys.
Rubik’s Cubin For Love And MoneyAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 30th, 2009
This year on Christmas, amidst the usual socks and underwear that my mom, I mean Santa, always surprises me with, I received a tiny keychain-sized Rubik’s cube.
Now personally, I’ve always hated these things. I could never figure the damn thing out and pretty much gave up on trying once I turned 9 and got hooked on Transformers and GI Joe’s.
Beware The Puppet MasterAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 20th, 2009
Some experts believe that 99% of our behavior is simply the result of conditioned responses that we have little to no control over.
Personally, I’m not sure if I like the implications of this statement.
I mean, we all have a few knee jerk reactions here and there, but for the most part, we’re logical, rational creatures who put a lot of thought into our decisions and actions.
Aren’t we?
Weighing In On The Tiger Woods ScandalAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 13th, 2009
As the Tiger Woods scandal continues to gather attention, a few people have asked me how I would go about coaching him if he were my client. As a relationship coach who specializes in breakups, here’s what I’d tell this cheating Tiger…
If You Want To Be Good At Life, Make Peace With DeathAuthor: Jay Cataldo12 10th, 2009
I had an interesting coaching session the other day that I’d like to tell you about. My client (we’ll call him Steve) is a marine who returned home from Iraq earlier in the year. While overseas, one of his best friends became paralyzed from a stray bullet. Unable to deal with the emotional pain, he ended up committing suicide.
Falling In Love Can Be Hazardous To Your HealthAuthor: Jay Cataldo11 6th, 2009
photo courtesy of Creative Commons
About a week back, I put up a tweet on twitter that got everyone all riled up. I’ll admit that it was a bit controversial, even for me. It read:
“The more frustrated men I work with, the more I believe that falling in love is the biggest mistake a man can make in a relationship.”
And of course, everybody started freaking out. While I did get a few “amen brotha”s, most of the responses (from both men and women) accused me of being “crazy”, “cynical” and an all-around poor excuse for a relationship coach. lol Pretty funny actually, but I understand why everyone was so upset. I quickly followed up with this: Read the rest of this entry »
Even Though Vince Is A Tranny, It Always Works Out In The EndAuthor: Jay Cataldo10 17th, 2009
Is it just me or does everything always seem to go wrong no matter what? No matter how much time you spend planning… no matter how brilliant the people you hire are… no matter how many deities you pray to or rabbit’s feet you collect… it’s never enough to prevent imminent disaster from striking at the worst possible times.
Warning – Do You Take Calcium Supplements?Author: Jay Cataldo09 1st, 2009
If you take calcium supplements, then you need to watch this David Wolfe video. David explains why calcium supplements might actually be dangerous.
P.S. If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button – Seven Proven Success Secrets For A Total Life Transformation” as a gift.
P.P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 ”Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!
The Chris Brown ApologyAuthor: Jay Cataldo07 28th, 2009
(this is a reprint of an article that I recently wrote for Womenco.com)
So Chris Brown finally issued a public apology last week for the infamous “Rihanna incident.” While it was long overdue, most people didn’t seem too happy with it, myself being one of them. Personally, I think he could have done a much better job and at the end of this article, I’m going to be sharing some psychologically proven tips on the best way to apologize to a co-worker. This advice will come in handy whenever you miss an important deadline or accidentally give your boss a black eye at the Christmas party. Read the rest of this entry »
A Must Watch TrailerAuthor: Jay Cataldo06 1st, 2009
People constantly ask me how I’m able to get the results that I do for my clients. If you’re curious, you can watch the trailer below to learn more about the “secret weapon” I use to transform people’s lives.
Btw… Success guru Jack Canfield highly endorses this technique (he’s in the movie). Nuff said.
P.S. If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles are published and will also receive my highly acclaimed free report “Push The Button – Seven Proven Success Secrets For A Total Life Transformation” as a gift.
P.P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 ”Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!
More Bad Facebook MannersAuthor: Jay Cataldo05 19th, 2009
I recently got to watch a breakup between a husband and wife unfold on Facebook which played out like a mini soap opera. What made it especially interesting was the fact that the guy is a pickup coach, very similar to that guy Mystery from the VH1 show “The Pickup Artist.”
It’s Not Me… They’re All Crazy!!!Author: Jay Cataldo05 8th, 2009
Let’s face it. Women are completely insane… at least from a man’s point of view. What guy wouldn’t agree that it’s easier to solve a Rubik’s cube in the midst of an acid trip than to decipher even a single sentence’s worth of undertones coming from the mouth of a female?
Facebook MannersAuthor: Jay Cataldo04 27th, 2009
Everyone could use a lesson in Facebook etiquette.
(If you like this video, please join my mailing list by entering your name and email address into the form on the right. You’ll be notified by email when new articles and videos are published and will also receive my free report “Push The Button” as a gift.)
P.S. Don’t forget to request your FREE 30min 1-on-1 ”Rapid Transformation” coaching session by filling out the form on the home page. Go here now: SIGN ME UP!
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